When it comes to dealing with women, some guys are really just doing it wrong. Yes, they have great plans. But they fail at the execution phase. Either they do not carry out what they intended to do. Or they shoot their feet by trying too hard.
If you think you know how to approach a woman and have a great plan for it, then you might want to read this guide to see what pitfall you have to avoid.
1. Rudeness.
It doesn’t matter if you are a dead ringer for a handsome Hollywood star if you’re mouth keeps on spewing offensive words. Any form of social interaction, like talking to a woman, requires respect and courteousness. Being insensitive or a total pervert will definitely lead you to the exit door.
2. Shyness.
What good is your position as the boss of your own company or the star doctor of your hospital if you cannot even share it to the girl? Shyness automatically puts you in the girl’s blacklist. Women want men who can stand up to them and carry themselves with an air of security and pride.
3. Seriousness.
Come on, girls go to bars or malls to unwind. The last thing they want is someone to rain on their parade by being too glum or dead serious. What can a smile do? Actually, many things. A smile can disarm a woman’s defenses; a laughter will leave them totally open to you. So leave the grave face in your house. The girl you want to meet is happy – so must you.
4. Cockiness.
Confidence is good, but not too much. When the girls see you getting too full of air, they won’t hesitate to pop you. If you want to drive them away, then go on, brag.
5. Creepiness.
You are the meeting the girl for the first time. So please, don’t talk about your future plans with her. Savor the moment – with one wrong move, that can be the last.
Attracting women is a guaranteed success if you know which pitfalls to avoid. With a good plan and right amount of confidence, you’re in for the night.